Green eyed iguana representing a green eyed monster

Beware of the Green-Eyed Monster (Part 1)

No matter what you look like, no matter the money you earn, no matter the home you live in, no matter your challenges – you will meet people in this life who are jealous of you. These jealous people may be family, friends, co-workers, neighbors, etc. But their assumptions about you and your life can cause you persistent disruptions if you do not learn how to manage them.

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The Art of Being Alone Without Being Lonely

In this life you need to know how to be your own best friend, lover, and cheer leader. Never be codependent on others for your happiness. If you are able bodied and can work, do not be codependent on others for your food, shelter, and clothing. Learn how to navigate life with healthy adult coping strategies that do not require you to be a burden to family, friends, or co-workers. It is okay to have relationships where you occasionally confide in others, but do not use other people as a crutch. Learn how to sit in silence and be alone with yourself. When you develop self-love and self-respect, you can do this without feeling a sense of lack.

Woman calling for silence

Learn to Move in Silence

Learning to move in silence means you keep your personal and professional plans and next steps private. You might consult a professional as needed, but you do not advertise to the masses. This is important because a jealous person will try to find ways to put up roadblocks between you and your dreams. One thing you never, never discuss with the masses is your sex life and your money.